How to be a good bottom boy

Do you want to be a good bottom boy? Many boys do. But they really don’t know how. I’ll give you some tips.

Your Top is in Charge

The first thing to realize is that being a bottom means you are not in charge. Your top wants a bottom. Submit to him. He does not want an equal. He wants to be in charge.  Worry less about what you want and only about what he wants.  Since he is in charge, he gets to decide how things will go.  You are free to not be with him in the future if you don’t like how you are treated.

Your Cock Size Does Not Matter

In a top and bottom scenario, your top will want your ass.  It will not go the other way.  If you want a scenario where you get to do some penetrating then find someone else.  Therefore, your cock size does not matter.  Many tops actually find small and tiny cocks cute.  In a sense, your cock is really like a male clitoris.

Stay Away from Your Top’s Ass

More than likely, your top wants nothing around his ass.  Don’t assume that he wants your finger there.  Most likely he does not.  If the thought occurs to  you, ask first.  If you get an enthusiastic response then do it.  If his answer appears to be just for the sake of pleasing you, then don’t do it.

Know How to Please His Cock

The penis varies a great deal.  Long, short, circumcised or not all make for extensive variations.  Learn how to please his cock specifically.  This comes down to three things. Let him show you or explain how to use your hand to please him.  If he is circumcised or not will have an effect.  It is common to think that uncircumcised males like to use their foreskin when they stroke.  The truth is that this varies.  Each will have a preference.  Learn what it is.

Circumcised boys and men will have difference parts of their penis more sensitive.  This is subtle.  Learn where the good spots are.

Be Well Groomed to Please

Your man will be more pleased if you are groomed a certain way.  Perhaps he would prefer you shave your legs or your pubic hair.  It is important to learn what he likes. Think about facial hair, shaved face, underarms.   You can make this a surprise.  Ask him one week then show up next week ready to please.

Make sure you keep yourself clean.  This should especially means a clean ass.  I mean thoroughly clean.  In most cases, there should be no hair encircling your hole.  This is best.  Don’t forget that your top will probably want to eat your ass.  Make sure it is a good experience for him.  Your top might like some hair there but most do not.  Again, know what he likes.

How do you walk

Many tops like to watch their bottoms walk from behind.  They love to see a little sway in that ass.  Be sure you know that they are paying attention.  Wear clothes that accentuate your ass in the right sexy way.

Be Ready To Do Things You Don’t Want To Do

Your top may want to do some things you don’t want to do.  He might want to kiss you in public or sit on his lap.  Remember that this is not your call.  It is not up to you.  Submitting to your top is what it is all about.   Telling him that you are not comfortable with something is fine.  But if he says he wants you to do it anyway, then you should do what he wants.

Should You Make Yourself Orgasm?

I say no.  I don’t think bottoms should ever make themselves orgasm unless the top says to do it.  Your cock is there for the top to stroke, caress or stimulate.  If he tells you to masturbate then do it of course. But don’t assume you should be stroking your own cock.  I’ve seen bottoms stroking themselves while they are sucking on their man.  This is rude.  You should be pleasing you man, not yourself.  Then there is the scenario of actual anal sex.  Nothing is more rude when your man is fucking you and you are concentrating on pleasuring your own cock.

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